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Sunday, 21 June 2009

hmm... its weird... this isnt right... i happy...

nope it isnt right at all... im happy...


im happy...


me...


i also dunno why....


im jus happy...


happy at what?


i have no idea...


maybe cos im thinking of good things to come?


probably... going to plan for a campfire next year... hopefully im around then...


im probably happy that i finally had a meeting with my PLC a few days ago...



ok lets be frank i have no idea why im happy but im jus happy...


the normal upset depressed me is suddenly happy....


its jus wrong...


anyways i still have to meet up with my ventures, guides, scouts teacher in charge, guides teacher in charge and Raymond Sir...


lotsa things to plan and look forward to working with wonderful characters and weird creatures...


i plan to call my assemble my campfire committee by october and see how things go...


but lets not get ahead of ourselves too much... i still have alot of things and troubles plaguing me...


first of which... GOT PEOPLE SAY I BECOME LIKE CHOCOLATE CAKE!!!!


thanks to karen-im-confused....


reason being i have jus attended a 3D2N camp which was under a hot sun and i had sunburn...


cos majority of the camp consist of me screaming expletives at a bunch of blur and unmotivated scouts and guides...

then actually by day 2 is not so bad the sunburn then i go dragonboat with the campers....



end up i got burned by the sun...


2 weeks later went swimming... again under hot sun... frm 1-5pm...

then jus ytd go swimming again frm 11-3....


so end up im burned again....

so yes im alittle blacker than usual but im not a chocolate cake...



now that i mention swimming it brings me to my post-op scar on my left knee... jus last week after the swim there was a huge amt of pain coming frm there...


as if something under the scar is pulling at my flesh...grrr... pain extend to the muscles then cant walk... for the whole of the week mon to fri...ouch...



oh did i mention the day when i woke up my legs sort of fell asleep again?

lol.... i woke up late as usual... then i started to walk out of my room...

then i dun remember what happen...

but i remembered both my legs suddenly felt very pain and couldnt move...

and then i sort of force myself to walk end up i kinda jump abit landed on my toes in the wrong way and fell forward... i stopped my fall with my hands but then my legs were still pain and couldnt move... so i jus lie there on the floor at the door to my room for a bit...

WHILE my dad watches on from the chair in the living room at me...

erm... FML anyone?



and then there is the jobless problem...

supposedly i left sakae cos im going underwater world to work....

but then the managment screwed up...

they did not tell me the details and so i was left thinking:
"they would not have done this had they had the heart to hire me"


jos tried to apologise to me but i wasnt having any of it... its not his fault... its the underwater world management fault...

so now im collateral from this whole messy affair... srry to the sakae people... i had to lie abt my attachment so that u guys will let me off...

and i had to concoct the lie in such a way that i not only deceived u all but i also deceived myself...


jus ytd i used up the last of my cash in my bank and now im again after so many months... BROKE...

and i still owe my mum 50 bucks.... -_-



there goes my dreams of a year end holiday... and probably my 20th birthday chalet...

i dont even have enough to pay for my phone bills of this month.... T.T



i dunno why... or how... after i told u how i felt... i dont feel myself anymore...

it feels as if all i was doing in the past was wallowing in my own sorrows, regret and 1 sided feelings for eternity...

it seems as if i have walked out of that cycle and then look back at the fool i was...

yet whenever i hear ur name being mention i feel revolted...

i get this feeling that if i were to see u again things will change back...

or change for the worst...

i want to be the new me....

i also want to still be friends with u...

yet i dont contact u... not even an sms...

cos some part of me is still the old me... afraid and not willing to let go...

and u dont contact me too either... so maybe...jus maybe... i should not give up?

and that should i jus continue to get u to like me?

or am i jus deluding myself again?

why isnt there a 10 year series on thing like these...




and then noe... im not happy happy anymore... more of a sad happy now... or a happy sad... i dont really know which...


jus that when it comes to the matter of the heart i dont really share with people... cos i dont really know how to make people understand my point...

sometimes its also hard maybe cos im a guy... and most if not all of my close friends are guys and the normal social prejudice is that guys dont usually open up to guys... normally guys dont open up at all...

cos the normal stereotypical guy dont have these deep feelings... guys have no feelings... they meet a problem they solve it... break things and get it done... they dont get teary eyed or have insecurities...

if they get rejected by girls and they move on to other girl... they dont get second thoughts abt should they continue to get the girl who rejected them... they dont get sentimental at my age... if they got rejected or dumped they forget about it and move on...

but not me... maybe cos i do alot of thinking alot of time... maybe cos im not a guy guy... or maybe cos im weird or stupid... might even be cos i often spend my time alone and emo-ing... but im jus not the normal stereotypical guy...

at least i dont feel like them... cos i do have deep dark feelings that i dont share.... hidden fantasies that i escape to when im alone... things that i cant share willingly... stuff that i dont want the world to know... memories, feelings and emotions that i dont want to lose or let go...

sucks to be me i guess...


oh and july is coming... time for my routine kidneys check again... pure waste of time and money if the doc still says they need to monitor me every half a year...


cant my kidneys jus like get well or jus fail so that i can move on... stop hampering my life... if u are going to fail jus fail... and get the f*** out of my life...



"It is better to be violent, if there is violence in our hearts, than to put on the cloak of nonviolence to cover impotence." -- Mahatma Gandhi

Saturday, 13 June 2009

life of a jobless numbnut...

NMNHNLM...


No Money No Honey Nobody Loves Me...


thats my life now...

running out of money to use soon...

no income but overspending... alot...


and im running out of excuses...


im running out of excuses to tell myself that my current situation is fine...


its not fine... its far from fine...


but i cant show its not fine... cos who'd believe me?

who'd help me?

who'd pity and care for me?




im jus like the guy that everyone knows but yet treat him as if hes invisible...



so yes im smiling and saying everything is alright now...

because i dont want to ruin the only thing that keeps me waking up every morning looking forward to have a better day...


and im going to let you guys off the hook....



cos its a 2 way thing....

friendship... is a 2 way thing...


i may have been imposing on u all alot...


perhaps even scaring u guys off or intruding....


so im letting u guy off the hook...



and i'll try to make right what i did to you guys



im jus trying to make things right...



anyway im now thinking abt how to celebrate my 20th birthday...


hmmm current guess list i have is very very extensive...

Red Fox: close to 25-30 pax

Sakae: abt 15-20pax

Girl Guides: 8-10pax

poly:10-15pax

EDMW:10-15pax

close to 90 people coming... maybe i should split into a 3 day 2 night thing?



hmm... need to think abit... anyone got good ideas?


btw if any MJR Guides are reading this... my rank is Assistant Scout Leader not Venture... so please address me as Sir or jus Eddie... im no longer a Venture... though Venture is more enjoyable role than Sir...

Wednesday, 10 June 2009

i dont want the whole world to see me... cos i dont think that they'd understand...

things haven been really going well...


please... dont try to understand me... cos u dont... stop


jus STOP...


stop understanding me...

stop pretending to know what im thinking...

stop acting like u know what i'll do next...


jus stop doing that...




STOP...



stop telling me the obvious...

stop telling me what i could or could not do...


STOP TELLING ME HOW TO LIVE MY LIFE...


im sick of it...


i am here today is because ive been through alot of crap....

cos if u'd seen my dark and twisted life u'd know...

im not worthy of good things...


im jus a sad sad me...


so dont tell me how to face my problems...

stop trying to helping me...


stop telling me what to do...




jus stop...


stop now...



stop now and dont ever start again...


because u dont know me... u dont understand me...



u ask if im alright?


no im not alright ok? are u satisfied? i am not alright...


ive reached a point where i stop making plans...


cos i had a plan and then there was a "car crash"... and then the plans disappears...


im jus trying to get from sun-up till sun-down...


thats abt as far into the future as i can handle...


so jus dont bother about me...


ive dug myself into this pile of crap...


i'll jus find another way out...

Thursday, 4 June 2009

time flies as we watched on teary eyed... things have changed...

things have changed...


we've come too far to just fail now...



thursday saw some of my comex flyer frens in NYP... they look as if they hardly recognize me anymore...

today jus returned frm 3 days of training camp...


3 days of shitty undisciplined rubbish of a camp...



sec1s were a total rubbish... never seen a batch thats as bad as them...


now is jus tired...


on a high note its time to reveal somethings that ive been hiding...

Monday, 1 June 2009

all good things must come to and end...

including the good thing that has happened to me thus far called Sakae Sushi...


life has been tough...unfair...unforgiving...


but if i would to pick... working at Sakae Sushi T2 Changi Airport would be one of my top picks to the finest moments in my life...


it would be the pinnacle of my life thus far...


heres a count down to the last day of my life as a SVC crew at Sakae Sushi Terminal 2 Changi Airport:


9.45am: last time i report for work at Sakae T2 for work... was late...

1.47pm: the last time i took a sushi order from a customer...

2.15pm: last time i took a teppanyaki order from customer...

2.20pm: the last time i checked the floor plan...

2.30pm: the last time i break for lunch at Sakae...

4.45pm: the last time i had briefing for work...

5.16pm: the last time i punch in from break...

6.28pm: the last time i put on my runner gear...

6.30pm: i begin my final runner job...

9.39pm: the final time i go for a toilet break as a Sakae SVC crew...

9.45pm: the first and final time i learn how to do general closing...

9.50pm: i begin my final closing general sidejob...

10.56pm: the final time i finish my sidejob at Sakae T2...

10.56pm: the last time i sit with all the SVC crew that had finished their sidejob...

11.04pm: the final goodbye to the kitchen crew and teppan cheif as a SVC crew...

11.05pm: i make my final punch out and remove my nametag for the final time...



yes i painstakingly took down all these details to be as accurate as i could... because it might not be significant to you but it means alot to me...


being brought up in a Buddhist family i believe strongly in fate... me being able to meet you all and work with all you wonderful people is the merits i have accumulated in my previous life... without you all my life would not be as colorful and exciting as it is...

breaking these bonds ive established with you all isnt easy... i dont know why but tears are silently flowing in my heart as i type all these...


working with me must have been a chore... i dont smile alot... often i panic and scream over small things... i wouldnt be human if i dont ask for all of your forgiveness in this...


i have to thank you all for being patient with me... that you all are gracious in accepting me for who i am... i thank you all for making my last day at Sakae as wounderful as my first day there was... always exciting always engaging... all my deepest and sincerest thanks to you all...


theres nothing that can take away what you have given me... for that my eternal gratitude to you all..


i sincerely hope and wish that our paths will cross again in the future...

Goodbye all my friends... forever more you all shall be remembered in my heart...

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i dont have much to say here...

just that with you my day brights up just alittle more from the usual dull tone, the usual monotone...

but i can just keep going in circles here, cos im scared, im a flawed person..

and you seem to have someone else, someone else who is much better than me...

tons better than me...

someone who i'd pick over me if i were you...

so i'd try my best to do what i can from my end...

i'd try... so please dont give up on me...

this i beg of you...

dont give up on me...


I still want you by my side
just to help me dry the tears that I've cried
cause I'm sure gonna give you a try
and if you want, I'll try to love again
but baby, I'll try to love again, but I know...

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to mike:
will miss you even though you leave...Sakae Sushi wouldnt be the same without you... hope that we will meet again the future.. for now our paths have separated but with all my heart i hope that we can all be together again... goodbye for now...